阿婆the GM - paper vulture ;

me being nice doesn't give you the prerogative to take advantage of it

i can be nice and accept every apology you give me every morning
but it doesn't mean you can piss me off everyday
i can be nice and listen to your rambles when you're pissed
but it doesn't mean you can take out your anger on me
i can be nice and help you in whatever way you want
but it doesn't mean that you can draw the line but i can't

if you don't want to do cocktails, mr. award-winning bartender,
don't be a bartender at all.

seems like influence, power and paperwork has clouded your head.
and it's sad to see how that happens.